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In this issue:

1) News Bytes
2) MailWasher Pro 3.2 review.
3) Microsoft limits chat in messenger.
4) New Sponsor, New Homes Directory
5) Computer virus watch.



News Bytes:

Halloween is upon us. Please play it safe. If your children go out trick-or-treating be sure an adult accompanies them. Carry a flashlight. Examine everything they are given before allowing them to eat it. Be especially wary of any product not in a sealed tamper-resistant container.

The Newsletter archive is again fairly up to date. If you're looking for a past article don't forget the archive is fully searchable.

Our forum software at SurfSafety.com has just been upgraded to Phorum 3.4.4. Unfortunately, one change that I could prevent is, by default, users can now see your email address by following the link to your profile from any live posts you may have on our system. If you have an account on our system please be sure to edit your user profile and make sure your email address is hidden in your posts. I recently discovered mine was similarly visible at another Phorum which may partially account for some of the spam I received to that address.

Very quietly this past week and with no fanfare the SurfSafely.com directory exploded from less than 40,000 listings to 53,365! We're very excited to see web developers embracing the concept of voluntary labeling and realizing the benefits of responsible content publishing. They help us provide you a more valuable resource and you help us provide them what they need, more visits to their web sites. I love it when a plan comes together.

Two new offices for SurfSafely.com are presently being established in the UK and Sweden with more in the works. As web developers throughout the world continue to join the voluntary self regulation movement, SurfSafely.com will be there to support them every step of the way.

Response to my call for volunteers has been very good. If you've replied but not heard back from us yet, please rest assured you are not forgotten. What we have in mind is category moderators for the main directory whose only responsibility would be to peruse the category you elected to moderate and make sure sites within that category are appropriately labeled and suitable for the directory. We are also planning to add additional forum topics which we may need help moderating as well. New topic suggestions are always welcome.

Lastly, I need to voice a personal belief. On October 21, 2003 the United States Congress gave final approval to a ban against partial birth abortions. As expected, the pro-choice militia was quick to denounce the ruling. Before this ruling babies were actually being terminated half way out the birth canal. My question to the right-to-choose-at-any-cost proponents is if you're going to commit murder, why not wait until the child is all the way out so you can look it straight in the eye while strangling it to death? That's right, I called it murder because that's what it is and no matter where in a pregnancy you terminate a child it's still murder. The only place one can logically draw the line where human life actually begins is at conception. The right to choose was exercised before conception when the couple decided to have sex and risk possible conception. After conception all right to choose is forfeited. This business of trying to define where human life begins at any other point in a pregnancy is completely absurd. Even victims of rape who become pregnant can turn tragedy into triumph by carrying to term and giving up their child to adoption for the millions of childless couples who long for one. Unless you can prove to me that mother and child cannot both survive the birth process without aborting the pregnancy, you will never convince me that there is ever a logical reason for abortion. Kudos to our legislators for upholding this most basic principal.

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MailWasher Pro 3.2

Yes folks, it's finally here. The long awaited version that supports AOL email! And that's not all. I know last month I promised you a review of Son Media Keyboard control but there is only one of me and I had to decide. For me it was a no-brainer. I have long proclaimed the benefits of this software and the best just got better.

Let's start at the beginning. MailWasher is an email client that runs on your computer very much like Outlook or Eudora with one major difference. MailWasher is not intended to be a reader which stores email to your computer. Think of it more like a web browser for your email. While using MailWasher the email is never actually retrieved from the mail server. You just get to peek at it and tell the mail server what to do with it before receiving it to your computer. What it does is create a list of what's waiting for you on the mail server. From that list it can be set up to automatically check against real time spam databases to determine what is most likely spam and what is not. Then with one click, spam is washed away. What used to take many wasted hours a week now takes only minutes.

What sets MailWasher apart though is how it's washed away. Most other antispam solutions simply delete unwanted email which does absolutely nothing to stem the tide of new spam. MailWasher
goes one step further by telling the mail server to "Return to sender, address unknown." This is important. Spammers pay top dollar for bandwidth to send you their junk email. Every message sent that's returned undeliverable is money wasted. So, not only do spammers send email but their software watches for what's returned as well. Returned messages are used to remove those addresses from their lists so they don't waste their money on those addresses a second time.

Version 3.2 of MailWasher refines even further the mechanism which makes bounced messages look like completely authentic undeliverable messages to the sender. Many of you will never need to worry about configuring these advanced features because many of you only manage one email account. But for those of you who use multiple aliases for incoming email (nicknames that deliver email to one email box) this improvement is invaluable. All it takes is entering each alias into a table so that when email is bounced the software knows which alias to use on the bounced message. Previous versions always used the main account which may have tipped spammers off to new addresses to send to.

Improvements have also been made to the MailWasher display. I have often complained that when the email list is long refreshing the display when changes occurred resembled falling dominos or a slow motion waterfall. Granted, it takes 50 or more email to really bog it down but when you consider that I manage several email accounts simultaneously which collect literally hundreds of spam each day, I still think it's too slow. But it is much better than it used to be and quite frankly, most of you will never notice because most of you will never see the sheer volume of spam that I do. No matter how you cut it, MailWasher makes cutting through spam a breeze.

My only real criticism of MailWasher is that it does not like to be interrupted. After pulling down the list of email waiting for you on the mail server it then goes to work checking it for known spam against the real time databases. This can take a few minutes and is dependent on several factors. The first dependency is your connection speed. MW must communicate with the databases in order to check what you've got against what they've got. The slower your connection speed the longer this takes. There is also a loading factor to be considered. Most of these spam databases are maintained independently and supported solely by donations. Their equipment is often not the best and with the increasing demands placed on data lookups it sometimes - scratch that - often becomes bogged down trying to serve up data to a growing number of users like myself. Sometimes MW tags email as fast as it is downloaded and there is no wait at all. Other times it's a waiting game. If you close MW before the process is complete it sometimes results in the dreaded blue screen. There is a "Cancel" button next to the progress indicator in the lower right corner of the screen which serves as a means to exit the spam lookups gracefully. Even then it sometimes hiccups.

The other place MW does not like being interrupted is after you press the button to "Start deleting and bouncing." As MW bounces it again must communicate with the mail server. The slower the connection the longer it takes. Bounce settings in the account configuration can also affect how long it takes. During the bouncing phase your only indicator is that the "Check new mail" button is grayed out. Closing MW in the middle of bouncing almost always returns a blue screen. Fortunately, in both cases the only effect is to terminate the MW program and does not force a full reboot of your computer. Just restart the program and be a little more patient. Certain factors that limit performance are simply out of MailWasher's control.

Last but certainly not least, MailWasher now handles AOL email. For you, my loyal readers, I have once again taken the plunge and activated an AOL account. No sympathy cards, please. I have no intention of being sucked in any longer than necessary. Just long enough to test MailWasher with it and maybe review the new 9.0 in time for the next newsletter. Setup for an AOL account in MailWasher is much simpler than for other ISPs. All one needs to enter is the nickname, aol address (screen_name@aol.com) and your AOL logon password. MailWasher checks the mail server and lists what's there the same way it does for other ISPs, screens it against spam databases, bounces known spam and leaves the rest on the mail server for me to get when I start up the AOL software. Very straight forward. Very effective. Much better than just filtering the spam using native AOL utilities. They just filter and discard it. We return it "undeliverable".

I confess. It gives me a certain degree of satisfaction knowing that I'm messing with spammers by spoofing their own software into thinking my account doesn't exist. It almost makes getting spam fun. Almost. The most important part is I'm taking a proactive role in helping to eliminate spam altogether and you can too. It does not matter where you live or who you have your Internet service through. MailWasher works everywhere and for everyone.

The United States Congress recently passed a bill which basically does nothing more than to state that spam is bad. Well, duh. Aside from this the move is purely symbolic, underscoring the need that each of us must take a stand against it. The only way to do that it to prove to spammers they're wasting their time. MailWasher is, for now, the very best offense in the combat against it. As long as it remains profitable for them to send spam, it will continue. Case closed.

Are you ready to take your stand against spam? Ready to stop wasting time sifting through mounds of it? Get your copy of MailWasher today.


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Microsoft limits chat in Messenger

I've been a long time critic of Microsoft but I really must digress for a moment. I believe they have been unfairly criticized for actions taken on their part to ensure accountability of users who wish to participate in public online chat. Critics say that Microsoft is flexing its muscle once again to bilk users out of more money. Microsoft counters that there is no other way to authenticate users beyond a reasonable doubt other than to charge a fee for the service, thus validating the user. I believe the truth lies somewhere in the middle.

I'm no fan of anonymous public online chat to begin with so for me there no love loss. In fact, anything that discourages users from engaging in it I consider to be a good thing. Anonymous public online chat is the single most dangerous online activity anyone can engage in. Period. This goes for children and adults. No one is exempt.

Kudos to Microsoft for not doing nothing about it. It's about time someone did something about it. It's about time someone had the guts to do it. I sincerely hope that others will take this lead.



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New corporate sponsor, New Homes Directory.

I am positively delighted to welcome New Homes Directory into the family of SurfSafely.com corporate sponsors.

The New Homes Directory is an online directory devoted to displaying new homes, new condos, new home builders, master planned communities, active adult and senior communities, luxury & estate homes, and golf course communities to those who are searching for new homes on the Internet. Our goal is to deliver you to the new home builder community web page in as few clicks as possible. (Personal note: My first home was purchased directly from a builder. It turned out to be the single best decision of my new home purchase.)

Please, please, please, visit this sponsor and thank them for their generosity to SurfSafely. We need more like these.

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Computer virus watch.

The Nigerian money laundering scam continues to fill email inboxes. Efforts to enforce criminal law across multinational boundaries is still very difficult and will likely never result in any penalties for the perpetrators. The only way this scam is going to stop is to stop people from responding to it. Once they realize they're wasting their time the scam will come to a natural conclusion. So pass it on. No one is going to deposit millions into your bank account and let you keep a percentage to help them funnel money out of their foreign countries. What they really want from you is enough banking info to drain your account. Nothing more.

A couple of viruses we're watching are W32/Swen@MM and W32/Dumaru@MM. Both are classified as medium Risk worms. Read more about these viruses at http://www.mcafee.com/anti-virus/. Of interest to me this time around is that viruses are now becoming aware of P2P (Peer to Peer) applications like Kazza to spread themselves. So, if the threat of a copyright infringement lawsuit isn't enough to deter you from sharing copyrighted files over the Internet, you can add this to your list of reasons why NOT to use Kazza.

Don't forget to keep your antivirus software up to date. Get your latest virus updates here:
Microsoft Internet Explorer 5.x patch
Mcafee updates
Norton updates
F-Secure updates

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That's news for now.

Be informed,
Be involved,
Be well.

Sincerely,
Mark Brasche
Founder and CEO,
SurfSafely.com


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